Fat and Slutty

Hello.

I’m Sarah. I’m a 35 year old British woman who has lived in Oklahoma since 2019. I’ve been married to my American spouse for four years. We live in a pretty cute house, with our pretty cute dogs, and mostly we live a pretty cute life together.

I am also ethically non-monogamous. And I’m fat. And I’m an atheist. And did I mention I live in Oklahoma?

It’s been almost a decade since I put fingers to keyboard and churned out some words on a page. I recently showed my old missives to someone I’m dating (more on him later, maybe, I’m not sure where this is going) and he encouraged me to get back on the horse, as it were. So, here we are.

Right now I don’t really have a clear picture of what I want this blog to be, but I imagine I will treat it like a journal for the most part. I used to write for a living, but this is going to be for myself. And if anyone feels like coming along for the ride I will be glad of the company.

As far as subject matter, I foresee fatness, my dating (and sex) life, living as a nervous liberal in a conservative place, navigating life as a weirdly privileged immigrant, and probably some stuff about my dogs at some point. I might (read: definitely will) throw in some past personal traumas here and there, to keep things spicy.

I guess I just want to find my voice again, so why not do it publicly? Right? Right.

Edit 3/3/23: I think I also have a boyfriend now. He is pretty freaking great.